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Why do we start letters with ‘dear’?

Learn the history of this centuries-old greeting and discover how it's evolved in the age of email.
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Why do we start letters with 'dear'?

Learn the history of this centuries-old greeting and discover how it's evolved in the age of email.

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I n an early job, I got feedback that my email correspondence needed to be more sophisticated. I was firing off, "Hey, do you have that expense report?" while my boss preferred the formalities of a traditional letter, including a salutation (a "Dear" and title/name combo) and a complimentary closing (such as "Best regards" or "Sincerely"). That level of formality has dropped out of all but the most professional email communications, but the etiquette persists for handwritten letters. Where did "Dear" come from, what does it mean, and what other options are there for conscientious email writers?

The word "dear," from the eighth-century Old English "deoare," originally meant something was precious or costly, but evolved into calling out something/someone as special. (That first usage still exists, but it's less common.) "Dear" was used, starting around the 14th century, as a salutation for only the most intimate letters: "Dearest sister," "To my dear friend," etc. The phrase "dearly beloved" was introduced in a 1662 Bible translation called the "Book of Common Prayer," and it became a traditional component of wedding ceremonies (and the classic opener of a Prince tune), furthering the association of "dear" with loved ones. 

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